It was one of THOSE weeks.
I won't lie, it started off a little rough. Phil went fishing on Saturday, which left Henry and I to run all the errands and spend the day together. It also happened to be about the time that Henry decided to be a naughty boy.
Wouldn't listen. Bit my face. Ran away from me in public. Wouldn't hold my hand in the parking lot. Slapped me. Temper tantrums. Kicked me in the face. Laughed at me when I cried out of frustration. Barely napped.
And Phil was late coming home.
Thankfully I had a girls afternoon the next day, but it wasn't exactly enough. And of course, while Phil was watching Henry during my girls afternoon, Henry ate lunch and then took a three and a half hour nap.
Phil's mom agrees with me that I deserve another girls day.
Here are a few more highlights from this week:
1. Daycare has requested that Henry no longer bring his dinosaur to school. And all of the other dinosaurs have been removed from his room as well. According to Henry, the dinosaurs were eating the other babies. Unfortunately, they weren't being very gentle about it. And when I say "they", I mean Henry.
I completely understand why he can't bring his dinosaur. It makes perfect sense and I totally respect daycare's request. But a part of me is sad for him. The first day Henry had to leave his dinosaur, he screamed "MY HENRY'S DINOSAUR" for about 5 minutes.
2. Last night during dinner, Henry thought it was funny to chew up his food, spit it out, and throw it at me. It was gross. But I won't lie... I was slightly impressed with his aim. The first time he did it, I was facing the opposite direction and he got me square in the head.
Phil and I turned our heads to laugh and then with a straight face, I told him we don't throw our food and told him to say sorry. I should probably warn daycare about this one.
3. It's almost sad that we have almost gone through a Costco box of Oreo's. Ok, so in my defense we have had it for a couple of months. Even though I am trying to have us eat a little healthier, I refuse to give up a few Oreo's a few days a week.
4. Henry had a carnival at daycare last week. Each teacher came up with a game booth and his teacher had a dinosaur fossil dig game. Part of the decorations was a giant red dinosaur. When we picked Henry up after his carnival, his teacher told us she wouldn't mind if the dinosaur disappeared in the back of our car. Actually, she insisted we take it. So we did.
Henry was excited, but a little upset that the dinosaur had to sit in the very back of the car...
More than a little upset. He screamed "MY DINOSAUR!" the whole way home.
We are now the proud owner of a very large dinosaur. Most of the time, Henry insists the thing is balanced on the coffee table.
5. Henry used to LOVE going to bed. We would lay him down and he would hang out in his crib for about 30 minutes before he fell asleep. And he would sleep like 11 hours almost every night. All of a sudden, Henry is protesting bedtime and naps. It takes him an hour to an hour and a half to fall asleep and he promptly wakes up at 6:30 in the morning. I'm not sure why the sudden change. Is there such a thing as the 2 year old sleep regression?
The week wasn't all bad. I'm super excited Orange is the New Black came out a day early (and I'm doing my best to not whole myself up inside for the next 2 days, watching it straight. We have a low-key weekend planned which should be pretty relaxing. And I am hopeful that this weekend will be better with Henry than last week. Can't get much worse, right?
Happy weekend!!
Friday, June 12, 2015
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
Diapers! Or shall we say... deals on diapers
One thing I discovered very quickly when I became pregnant is that I have some underlying hippy tendencies. I didn't get to do the natural birth I wanted. I did nurse for a year, but it wasn't without its challenges. And that just leaves diapers.
I thought Phil would think I was crazy when I mentioned I wanted to use cloth diapers. But he was actually totally on board. My guess is that picking up after dogs has made him immune to the idea of cleaning dirty diapers.
After Henry was born, the cloth diapers were a little too big for his tiny body. We waited a couple of months until he bulked up a little bit. At that point, Phil's dad was starting to get really sick. Between travelling to Virginia, Phil being back in Virginia, and just trying to figure out life with a baby, we used disposable for a little longer.
Then I realized that going out and about with all the cloth diaper stuff made the diaper bag HUGE. So I decided we would use disposables when we were going places. That pretty much left daycare. And mostly because so many people thought I wouldn't last with the cloth diapers, I was DETERMINED to be successful with cloth (stubborn, party of ME).
So 4 days a week, Henry wears cloth. Weekends and Thursday (when my mom watches him), he wears disposables.
We have made it 2 years, and I am guessing cloth diapers have saved us at least a few hundred dollars. Henry moves up to the preschool-2 room at the end of the month, where they will start working on potty-training (YAY! Another reason to love daycare- they potty-train for you). But they mentioned that it would be easier with disposable diapers.
And I totally get it. And whatever they need to help THEM potty-train him, I am ALL FOR.
So I have been on the hunt for the cheapest diapers possible. I don't have time to be a crazy couponer. I'm not driving around town to get the best deal. I need quick and easy. And here's a couple of deals I have found for Size 4 diapers (remember, the smaller size of diaper, the more diapers you get per box and the cheaper the per diaper cost):
1. My extensive research has revealed that without coupons, Target has the cheapest diapers. You can get a big box (using the REDcard) for about $0.18/diaper. And let's face it, they don't need fancy diapers for during the day.
2. Two words: Amazon Mom. Amazon Mom gives 20% off diapers. If you get Huggies Snug & Dry (which I am convinced is Huggies most economical diaper), you can get diapers for $0.175/diaper which is basically the same price as Target diapers. And they are delivered to your doorstep for FREE. Pretty regularly, Amazon has coupons that you can use with the Amazon Mom discount, making the diapers $0.16/diaper.
3. Random deals. I was looking at Target's website a couple of weeks ago when I noticed that they now have a subscription service and they were offering 25% off Huggies diapers for your first subscription purchase. That discount along with the REDcard discount made Huggies Snug & Dry about $0.15/diaper. The only problem with that was they were running out of stock. I bought 2 boxes of 192, one box of 156, and a box of size 5 Huggies Overnight (which is what Henry where to bed) for just over $100. I think I saved almost $80 on 606 diapers.
Side note: Of course, I didn't change the shipping address with Target, so they got sent to our old house. And I started FREAKING OUT. Thankfully, my brother knows the new tenant, so I was able to get all of my diapers.
The sad thing is that daycare changes their diapers so much that I think the 600 diapers I just bought will only last us 2.5-3 months. But still, that is only $30/month and I won't have to wash anymore diapers. :)
So there you go! I feel like I did make cloth work for us long enough to feel good about that investment. Plus I am going to bleach the heck out of them (throw the wet bags away) and save them for the next baby. But this is how I am going to spend the least amount on diapers possible. I feel like Henry is NOT going to be early to potty-train. He has just had this mentality with milestones that he waits and waits and waits to do something until he masters it. But I am hoping that we will only have to buy diapers for 6-9 months. Wishful thinking? Probably. But I am happy with my delusions.
Friday, June 5, 2015
5 Years
It seems to strange to me to say that today is our 5 year anniversary.
For some reason that feels like a long time. So much longer than 4 years. Maybe it is because I probably can't call us newlyweds anymore. Although I don't think we have felt like newlyweds in a VERY long time.
I just can't even believe all that the last 5 years has entailed:
- Phil's dad's Liver Cancer
- The PE Exam
- Infertility
- Thyroid Cancer (diagnosis, LID, RAI)
- Cancer Free
- A puppy
- Getting pregnant
- Having a baby
- Losing Phil's Dad
- Buying a house
- Phil finishing his PhD
What's funny is that when we were picking out the song for our first dance, we kept going back to Steady as We Go by Dave Matthews Band.
And the basic message of the song is that no matter what happens, we'll get through it. Steady as we go. And that's exactly what the last 5 years have been.
I know everyone says it, but I really did get the best guy out there. Through everything we have been through, Phil's been an absolute rock. He works hard. He's kept his focus. He's kept us on track. He's kept me going when I didn't know if I could. He goes along with my crazy ideas. He is kind (everyone likes him more than me). Marrying that guy was, without a doubt, the best decision I ever made.
Phil, I'm so glad I followed you around at Ryan's birthday party. :) I love you! Thank you for being amazing during 5 of the best and hardest years of my life. Here's to 60 more!
For some reason that feels like a long time. So much longer than 4 years. Maybe it is because I probably can't call us newlyweds anymore. Although I don't think we have felt like newlyweds in a VERY long time.
I just can't even believe all that the last 5 years has entailed:
- Phil's dad's Liver Cancer
- The PE Exam
- Infertility
- Thyroid Cancer (diagnosis, LID, RAI)
- Cancer Free
- A puppy
- Getting pregnant
- Having a baby
- Losing Phil's Dad
- Buying a house
- Phil finishing his PhD
What's funny is that when we were picking out the song for our first dance, we kept going back to Steady as We Go by Dave Matthews Band.
And the basic message of the song is that no matter what happens, we'll get through it. Steady as we go. And that's exactly what the last 5 years have been.
I know everyone says it, but I really did get the best guy out there. Through everything we have been through, Phil's been an absolute rock. He works hard. He's kept his focus. He's kept us on track. He's kept me going when I didn't know if I could. He goes along with my crazy ideas. He is kind (everyone likes him more than me). Marrying that guy was, without a doubt, the best decision I ever made.
Phil, I'm so glad I followed you around at Ryan's birthday party. :) I love you! Thank you for being amazing during 5 of the best and hardest years of my life. Here's to 60 more!
Monday, June 1, 2015
Oh hey... A blog post! (aka Life Lately)
I'm not even sure when the last time I blogged was. I could look, but I know it was A LONG time ago. We took a family trip to Texas at the beginning of March and I don't think I have really blogged since. I think the only person that noticed I haven't been blogging is my mother-in-law (Hi Faith!).
The truth is that I have missed it. Blogging, that is. I still read some blogs. I still comment on some, but not too many. I miss the outlet. And I miss the community. Towards the end, I was feeling discouraged because the community part for me wasn't as strong. But it's just like anything, it always takes time. One foot in front of the other.
So I am going to give blogging a go again. But with a little less pressure on myself. For the time being, here's what has been occupying my time for the last 3 months.
1. Henry
No big surprise here. He turned two and is now OBSESSED with dinosaurs. And mildly obsessed with trains.
Of course being 2 means we are also dealing with some of this:
And boy has it been FUN!
2. Sickness
Despite the ear tubes, Henry has had 2 bouts with ear infections (1 in only one ear, the other in both ears). I do think the tubes are helping him not be in as much pain, so I won't say they haven't been worth it. Not to mention that the tubes mean we can just use ear drops for the treatment. He's getting pretty good about the drops.
We have also had the awesome opportunity of passing some stomach bugs and sinus infections around. Gotta love daycare. I have heard that the first 2 years of daycare at the worst. By that calculation, we only have 4 months left of constant sickness. Not that I am counting or anything.
3. Work
Thankfully, work has been busy. I recently made the discovery that my entire evening is much more enjoyable if I can get off work at 4:30 instead of 5. That half an hour may not seem like much, but 30 minutes in the evening is the difference between eating at 6 and eating at 7. Traffic makes that much of a difference in 30 minutes. I actually get to see Henry and spend time with him now. It is AWESOME! However, between leaving earlier and being REALLY busy, I have been going to work as early as possible.
Like 5 or 6 in the morning early. And that means early to bed. It makes for not a lot of blogging material.
4. Work
I've been so busy at work that we actually hired someone else. In the long run, this is going to be wonderful. I wasn't able to progress in my career because I was bogged down by work that I have been doing for years. In the short term, training someone is HARD. Mostly because I have to get my work done and check someone else's. That means I am having to work even more. Nights and weekends. And it looks a lot like this.
Working in the sunshine was about twelve kinds of wonderful though. I mean, if you have to work doing it outside with some iced tea isn't so bad.
In other work related news, I got a standing desk.
Actually, it is so much cooler than just a standing desk. It is motor-controlled so I can either sit or stand. Is it sad how excited I got about this? Probably.
5. Healthiness
A fitness trainer I know offered her workout program for free to her Facebook friends as long as we agreed to beta test it for her. So far, it is so crazy hard. I'm a month into it and already have noticed some serious changes. I have 8 weeks left and I am already looking at purchasing a similar type of workout system when it is over to keep the changes coming.
And it is crazy how when you are working your butt off with exercise, it kind of makes you not want to ruin it all by eating total crap. So I have been spending some time and energy figuring out some healthier recipes and cooking. The bad news is that we spend more on groceries and I feel like I am constantly cutting up fruits and veggies. The good news is that Phil has lost like 5 lbs.
So that's pretty much it. I need to get my writing mojo going again. I have a feeling this post was somewhat painful to read. No fear, it's just like riding a bike. Hopefully.
The truth is that I have missed it. Blogging, that is. I still read some blogs. I still comment on some, but not too many. I miss the outlet. And I miss the community. Towards the end, I was feeling discouraged because the community part for me wasn't as strong. But it's just like anything, it always takes time. One foot in front of the other.
So I am going to give blogging a go again. But with a little less pressure on myself. For the time being, here's what has been occupying my time for the last 3 months.
1. Henry
No big surprise here. He turned two and is now OBSESSED with dinosaurs. And mildly obsessed with trains.
Of course being 2 means we are also dealing with some of this:
{This tantrum resulted because I got him the snack he asked for. Obviously his life is horrible.}
And boy has it been FUN!
2. Sickness
Despite the ear tubes, Henry has had 2 bouts with ear infections (1 in only one ear, the other in both ears). I do think the tubes are helping him not be in as much pain, so I won't say they haven't been worth it. Not to mention that the tubes mean we can just use ear drops for the treatment. He's getting pretty good about the drops.
{The dinosaurs come EVERYWHERE with us}
We have also had the awesome opportunity of passing some stomach bugs and sinus infections around. Gotta love daycare. I have heard that the first 2 years of daycare at the worst. By that calculation, we only have 4 months left of constant sickness. Not that I am counting or anything.
3. Work
Thankfully, work has been busy. I recently made the discovery that my entire evening is much more enjoyable if I can get off work at 4:30 instead of 5. That half an hour may not seem like much, but 30 minutes in the evening is the difference between eating at 6 and eating at 7. Traffic makes that much of a difference in 30 minutes. I actually get to see Henry and spend time with him now. It is AWESOME! However, between leaving earlier and being REALLY busy, I have been going to work as early as possible.
Like 5 or 6 in the morning early. And that means early to bed. It makes for not a lot of blogging material.
4. Work
I've been so busy at work that we actually hired someone else. In the long run, this is going to be wonderful. I wasn't able to progress in my career because I was bogged down by work that I have been doing for years. In the short term, training someone is HARD. Mostly because I have to get my work done and check someone else's. That means I am having to work even more. Nights and weekends. And it looks a lot like this.
{Memorial Day evening}
{Sunday afternoon}
Working in the sunshine was about twelve kinds of wonderful though. I mean, if you have to work doing it outside with some iced tea isn't so bad.
In other work related news, I got a standing desk.
Actually, it is so much cooler than just a standing desk. It is motor-controlled so I can either sit or stand. Is it sad how excited I got about this? Probably.
5. Healthiness
A fitness trainer I know offered her workout program for free to her Facebook friends as long as we agreed to beta test it for her. So far, it is so crazy hard. I'm a month into it and already have noticed some serious changes. I have 8 weeks left and I am already looking at purchasing a similar type of workout system when it is over to keep the changes coming.
And it is crazy how when you are working your butt off with exercise, it kind of makes you not want to ruin it all by eating total crap. So I have been spending some time and energy figuring out some healthier recipes and cooking. The bad news is that we spend more on groceries and I feel like I am constantly cutting up fruits and veggies. The good news is that Phil has lost like 5 lbs.
So that's pretty much it. I need to get my writing mojo going again. I have a feeling this post was somewhat painful to read. No fear, it's just like riding a bike. Hopefully.
Labels:
engineering,
exercise,
Food,
Henry,
woman business owner
Friday, March 20, 2015
5 Things Friday: What the WHAT?!? Edition
So I may have taken a bit of a hiatus from blogging in the last month. Life... it's busy. And frankly, when you are working 45-50 hours a week, there really isn't too much to blog about. The creative juices weren't flowing. And I really don't want to fill my blog up with stuff just for the sake of posting.
The good news is that after A MONTH, I actually have some stuff to blog about. And I figured what better time to start back up than 5 Things Friday.
This list is comprised of the shocking "SERIOUSLY?!" moments that have happened basically in the last week. It's been a good one.
1. I was at the ENT the other day (for a hearing test) and the doctor was giving my neck an exam. What that had to do with my hearing, I have NO idea. He starts at the top of my neck, working his way down, and vocalizing all of the things he feels along the way. Lymph nodes, carotid artery, thyroid...
Thyroid?!
Me: Um... I don't have a thyroid.
Dr.: Ok, let's check again...
Proceeds to re-do neck exam, and when he gets to where my thyroid should be,
Dr: Well, right here, I feel the cartilidge. I just assumed you have a small thyroid. It's not like you have cancer though.
Me: I did have cancer. Which is why you'd better not feel any thyroid in there.
Starts neck exam AGAIN.
Dr: No I don't feel any residual thyroid tissue in there.
Yeah, I feel like I'm in such good hands.
This might not seem like a big deal, but if I have thyroid tissues, that means my cancer has come back. So it kind of is a big deal. In the past, this would have really freaked me out. But I had an ultrasound and bloodwork done in December that showed NO thyroid tissue in my thyroid bed and the bloodwork showed NO sign of thyroid tissue (aka cancer). But I honestly can't believe that it happened.
2. Later that same day, I went to a committee meeting. We have had these meetings almost every month for over two years, so when the meetings first started, I was fairly pregnant. And if you recall, I was not a small pregnant woman. I was one of those unfortunate, not cute, chubby pregnant ladies. And I have since then lost all that baby weight.
Like a year ago. So I was a little confused when TWO people said:
"You look really different since the last time we saw you!"
Granted we haven't met in probably 3 months, but I was a little confused. So I asked, "Oh yeah? How so?"
Response, "Well didn't you recently have a baby?"
2 YEARS AGO!
And it would have been one thing if these were large meetings (they aren't) or if I was silent during the entire meeting (I'm not) or if it were just one person (but it wasn't).
I guess I should get rid of the shirt I was wearing.
3. I'm not going to go into details on this next one, but let me just say this...
When you are interviewing for a job, it is probably best to NOT look down the employers blouse while shaking her hand good-bye.
Just a piece of advice from me to you.
4. I was taking a drink of coffee and missed my mouth.
Can we say "Professional?" I suppose it could be worse? Like I could have dropped chili on the plans.
5. My family was together a few weeks ago and I casually told a story mentioning that I had baby fever. Here are some examples of the response I got:
"Not yet!"
Downcast stares with a subtle head shake.
At least one person looked at Phil and said, "No."
I'm probably the ONLY one left in my family that will have kids, so this reaction surprised me. They all LOVE Henry. And I'm pretty sure I didn't get a say in their family planning. It just seemed like a strange reaction.
I mean, look at Henry:
He's so cute! Obviously we should have like a dozen more babies.
So hopefully you have a good weekend and nobody says (or does) anything weird to you!
The good news is that after A MONTH, I actually have some stuff to blog about. And I figured what better time to start back up than 5 Things Friday.
This list is comprised of the shocking "SERIOUSLY?!" moments that have happened basically in the last week. It's been a good one.
1. I was at the ENT the other day (for a hearing test) and the doctor was giving my neck an exam. What that had to do with my hearing, I have NO idea. He starts at the top of my neck, working his way down, and vocalizing all of the things he feels along the way. Lymph nodes, carotid artery, thyroid...
Thyroid?!
Me: Um... I don't have a thyroid.
Dr.: Ok, let's check again...
Proceeds to re-do neck exam, and when he gets to where my thyroid should be,
Dr: Well, right here, I feel the cartilidge. I just assumed you have a small thyroid. It's not like you have cancer though.
Me: I did have cancer. Which is why you'd better not feel any thyroid in there.
Starts neck exam AGAIN.
Dr: No I don't feel any residual thyroid tissue in there.
Yeah, I feel like I'm in such good hands.
This might not seem like a big deal, but if I have thyroid tissues, that means my cancer has come back. So it kind of is a big deal. In the past, this would have really freaked me out. But I had an ultrasound and bloodwork done in December that showed NO thyroid tissue in my thyroid bed and the bloodwork showed NO sign of thyroid tissue (aka cancer). But I honestly can't believe that it happened.
2. Later that same day, I went to a committee meeting. We have had these meetings almost every month for over two years, so when the meetings first started, I was fairly pregnant. And if you recall, I was not a small pregnant woman. I was one of those unfortunate, not cute, chubby pregnant ladies. And I have since then lost all that baby weight.
Like a year ago. So I was a little confused when TWO people said:
"You look really different since the last time we saw you!"
Granted we haven't met in probably 3 months, but I was a little confused. So I asked, "Oh yeah? How so?"
Response, "Well didn't you recently have a baby?"
2 YEARS AGO!
And it would have been one thing if these were large meetings (they aren't) or if I was silent during the entire meeting (I'm not) or if it were just one person (but it wasn't).
I guess I should get rid of the shirt I was wearing.
3. I'm not going to go into details on this next one, but let me just say this...
When you are interviewing for a job, it is probably best to NOT look down the employers blouse while shaking her hand good-bye.
Just a piece of advice from me to you.
4. I was taking a drink of coffee and missed my mouth.
{Don't worry... we won't really have people sleep in the kitchen}
Can we say "Professional?" I suppose it could be worse? Like I could have dropped chili on the plans.
5. My family was together a few weeks ago and I casually told a story mentioning that I had baby fever. Here are some examples of the response I got:
"Not yet!"
Downcast stares with a subtle head shake.
At least one person looked at Phil and said, "No."
I'm probably the ONLY one left in my family that will have kids, so this reaction surprised me. They all LOVE Henry. And I'm pretty sure I didn't get a say in their family planning. It just seemed like a strange reaction.
I mean, look at Henry:
He's so cute! Obviously we should have like a dozen more babies.
So hopefully you have a good weekend and nobody says (or does) anything weird to you!
Labels:
babies,
Henry,
pregnancy,
thyroid cancer
Wednesday, February 18, 2015
Recipe: Tomato Salad
Tomato Salad
Ingredients:
Sunburst Tomatoes
1/2 can of Black Olives
1/2 container of fresh mozzarella (I got these Chiliegine from Trader Joe's)
1. Cut tomatoes in half.
2. Cut olives in half.
3. Cut mozzerella into similar size pieces (depends on what size of mozzarella you get).
4. Drizzle with a little olive oil and stir
Olive Oil
1. Cut tomatoes in half.
2. Cut olives in half.
3. Cut mozzerella into similar size pieces (depends on what size of mozzarella you get).
4. Drizzle with a little olive oil and stir
Seriously, I could eat this whole bowl for an entire meal. I've made it at least once a week for the past few weeks. It is SO GOOD!!!!
Tuesday, February 17, 2015
Henry's Awful Parents
Despite all of my hopes that this week would start off great, it did not.
We had a little hiccup when Henry's medicine accidentally got dropped on the floor. Turns out the lid wasn't on all the way... we had a bit of a mess. It was an accident but still annoying. When I first called the pharmacist this morning, she explained that I might end up having to pay full price for another prescription. It would have been like $72 for 2 or 3 doses. Thankfully, the doctor's office said we can just use what we have left and to let them know if it seems like Henry's ears are bothering him again.
But that wasn't the only reason yesterday morning was hard.
According to Henry, it was also hard because we are awful parents. Below is a list of all the wrongs we, Henry's parents, committed yesterday morning:
1. We made him get out of bed.
2. We took off his jammies.
3. We changed his messy, wet diaper.
4. We made him put on comfy clothes.
5. We didn't give him his blankie fast enough.
6. We walked out of his room too quickly.
7. I tried to give him some cereal.
8. Phil tried to let him pick a pacifier.
9. We took him out of his seat once he was done with his medicine.
10. We made him put his Batman sweatshirt on (the same one he wouldn't take off yesterday).
11. We put him in the car.
12. I tried giving him his cereal again.
13. I tried giving him his pacifier.
14. We backed out of the driveway.
15. After he had calmed down, I tried giving him his cereal again.
Obviously, the list of wrongs goes on and on.
He cried so much yesterday on the way to daycare, his face was still splotchy when we got there.
He calmed down after I sang "The Point of No Return" from Phantom of the Opera. I didn't get applause but the lack of crying was reward enough.
The worst part was the Phil and I let Henry's tantrum affect our moods. We definitely need to get better about keeping it cool and calm when he is acting up. Because I'm 100% positive it will happen again.
I'm really hoping that Tuesday morning goes better, but I won't really know because I am at work super early (read: 5 am).
We had a little hiccup when Henry's medicine accidentally got dropped on the floor. Turns out the lid wasn't on all the way... we had a bit of a mess. It was an accident but still annoying. When I first called the pharmacist this morning, she explained that I might end up having to pay full price for another prescription. It would have been like $72 for 2 or 3 doses. Thankfully, the doctor's office said we can just use what we have left and to let them know if it seems like Henry's ears are bothering him again.
But that wasn't the only reason yesterday morning was hard.
According to Henry, it was also hard because we are awful parents. Below is a list of all the wrongs we, Henry's parents, committed yesterday morning:
1. We made him get out of bed.
2. We took off his jammies.
3. We changed his messy, wet diaper.
4. We made him put on comfy clothes.
5. We didn't give him his blankie fast enough.
6. We walked out of his room too quickly.
7. I tried to give him some cereal.
8. Phil tried to let him pick a pacifier.
9. We took him out of his seat once he was done with his medicine.
10. We made him put his Batman sweatshirt on (the same one he wouldn't take off yesterday).
11. We put him in the car.
12. I tried giving him his cereal again.
13. I tried giving him his pacifier.
14. We backed out of the driveway.
15. After he had calmed down, I tried giving him his cereal again.
Obviously, the list of wrongs goes on and on.
He cried so much yesterday on the way to daycare, his face was still splotchy when we got there.
{It wasn't as cute as these older pictures depict}
The worst part was the Phil and I let Henry's tantrum affect our moods. We definitely need to get better about keeping it cool and calm when he is acting up. Because I'm 100% positive it will happen again.
I'm really hoping that Tuesday morning goes better, but I won't really know because I am at work super early (read: 5 am).
Monday, February 16, 2015
A weekend of cuteness
We didn't go on any adventures this weekend. No mountain climbing. There were no parties thrown or anything like it. It was a pretty uneventful weekend filled with lots of family time, a little working out, grocery shopping, trips to Costco. And it was awesome.
I have a tendency to overschedule, so weekends spent relaxing are kind of nice.
Here are some highlights from our weekend of nothing.
I feel like this is going to be a great week. I was able to finish something Friday afternoon that I spent all week on, literally staring at a sheet of paper for 2 days. So even though I have a big deadline this week, I get to start with a clean slate.
Let's have a good week, people!
I have a tendency to overschedule, so weekends spent relaxing are kind of nice.
Here are some highlights from our weekend of nothing.
{Our own Batman, reading about Batman}
{FaceTime with Grandma while wearing Daddy's hat}
{If we say, "Do you want to call Grandma Faith?" he immediately runs over to grab the computer with a big smile on his face}
{I was able to give him a haircut thanks to 101 Dalmatians and Daddy handing him dried blueberries one at a time. Other than the fact that his sideburns are even, it isn't too bad}
{Reading books with Daddy. He had to have his Batman sweatshirt on, but couldn't be wearing pants}
I feel like this is going to be a great week. I was able to finish something Friday afternoon that I spent all week on, literally staring at a sheet of paper for 2 days. So even though I have a big deadline this week, I get to start with a clean slate.
Let's have a good week, people!
Friday, February 13, 2015
5 Things Friday
Friday the 13th. I'm just super excited it is FRIDAY!!! I have high hopes for my productivity at work today. I'm going to knock several things out of the park today, I just know it. :) Here's a mix of random for you on this fine Friday.
1. Because tomorrow is Valentine's Day, I'm sure every daycare/preschool/classroom is celebration Valentine's Day today. Henry's baby room is no exception. I have to admit that I had a hard time buying into classroom parties last year when Henry was a legit baby (not a toddler). I mean, he could barely crawl so I'm pretty sure the concept of Valentine's Day was lost on him. But now that he is talking, I get more and more excited to celebrate holidays with him.
But I still don't think he needs candy.
So I scoured the internet (ok really just Pinterest) and found THESE cute printables. I decided I would rather the babies in his room get doughnut holes than a lollipop.
So here are Henry's Valentines:
2. There other day on Facebook, I saw this article from Buzzfeed. And because I am a HUGE Potterhead, I watched the video.
But it brought up something about the last movie that REALLY bothered me. And it is visible in the video above.
Through out the all of the books (and the movies) characters mention over and OVER how Henry looks just like his father except for his eyes. He has his mother's eyes. In case you aren't a weirdo and can't remember, his eyes look like this:
BLUE.
Very blue.
The little girl in that video... what color are her eyes?
BROWN!!
Why?! I mean, this seems like something that CGI or colored contacts could have easily fixed. I mean, did they not notice this? It seems like such a necessary casting detail to pay attention to.
This really has been bothering me. :)
3. Toddler tantrums are pretty much a daily occurrence in our household. In a way, it kind of makes me feel like we are doing something right. Like we aren't raising a spoiled child who gets everything that he wants. But they still suck.
Last night, he had a MASSIVE tantrum when we were leaving Grandma's house. It lasted probably 10 minutes, including when I was putting him in the car. And the only way I could get him to calm down was to turn all sound off in the car and be totally silent.
It didn't take but 15 seconds of that and he was calmed down.
Maybe it was a fluke. Or maybe it was magic. But I am definitely going to try that again the next time he has a tantrum in the car (which I'm 99.9% positive WILL happen again).
4. Because things have been so busy at work (and they aren't showing signs of calming down any time soon thankfully), I have been making a conscious effort to take care of myself a little. And that means I am taking more baths.
When we were house hunting, I had basically 2 things on my "must have" list. One was the master bedroom had to have room for a king size bed (Phil is a big guy and I like my space when I'm sleeping). And the other was I needed a decent bath tub.
5. When I was making Henry's Valentines, I needed a stapler to attach the printable to the baggie. It suddenly dawned on me that we don't have a regular stapler. The only stapler we have is this one:
I found it kind of amusing.
Have a good weekend!!
Linking up with September Farm and The Farmer's Wife
1. Because tomorrow is Valentine's Day, I'm sure every daycare/preschool/classroom is celebration Valentine's Day today. Henry's baby room is no exception. I have to admit that I had a hard time buying into classroom parties last year when Henry was a legit baby (not a toddler). I mean, he could barely crawl so I'm pretty sure the concept of Valentine's Day was lost on him. But now that he is talking, I get more and more excited to celebrate holidays with him.
But I still don't think he needs candy.
So I scoured the internet (ok really just Pinterest) and found THESE cute printables. I decided I would rather the babies in his room get doughnut holes than a lollipop.
So here are Henry's Valentines:
2. There other day on Facebook, I saw this article from Buzzfeed. And because I am a HUGE Potterhead, I watched the video.
But it brought up something about the last movie that REALLY bothered me. And it is visible in the video above.
Through out the all of the books (and the movies) characters mention over and OVER how Henry looks just like his father except for his eyes. He has his mother's eyes. In case you aren't a weirdo and can't remember, his eyes look like this:
BLUE.
Very blue.
The little girl in that video... what color are her eyes?
BROWN!!
Why?! I mean, this seems like something that CGI or colored contacts could have easily fixed. I mean, did they not notice this? It seems like such a necessary casting detail to pay attention to.
{image from HERE}
This really has been bothering me. :)
3. Toddler tantrums are pretty much a daily occurrence in our household. In a way, it kind of makes me feel like we are doing something right. Like we aren't raising a spoiled child who gets everything that he wants. But they still suck.
Last night, he had a MASSIVE tantrum when we were leaving Grandma's house. It lasted probably 10 minutes, including when I was putting him in the car. And the only way I could get him to calm down was to turn all sound off in the car and be totally silent.
It didn't take but 15 seconds of that and he was calmed down.
Maybe it was a fluke. Or maybe it was magic. But I am definitely going to try that again the next time he has a tantrum in the car (which I'm 99.9% positive WILL happen again).
4. Because things have been so busy at work (and they aren't showing signs of calming down any time soon thankfully), I have been making a conscious effort to take care of myself a little. And that means I am taking more baths.
When we were house hunting, I had basically 2 things on my "must have" list. One was the master bedroom had to have room for a king size bed (Phil is a big guy and I like my space when I'm sleeping). And the other was I needed a decent bath tub.
5. When I was making Henry's Valentines, I needed a stapler to attach the printable to the baggie. It suddenly dawned on me that we don't have a regular stapler. The only stapler we have is this one:
I found it kind of amusing.
Have a good weekend!!
Linking up with September Farm and The Farmer's Wife
Wednesday, February 11, 2015
Ears, Ears, EARS
For a while, Henry was very fond of The Ear Book.
Well, Henry's ears have not been super cooperative lately.
We are on I think our 4th, 5th, or 6th ear infection of 2015. I honestly can't remember. It's at least his 4th. (Another reason blogging has been scarce) What's super frustrating is that the ear infections ARE clearing up in between, but the fluid isn't going away. Which means we end up with another ear infection like 2 weeks after we finish antibiotics.
A quick tip about antibiotics: Augmentin (which they have prescribed for Henry on multiple occasions) is the chalky looking white liquid with a super sweet smell. I mentioned on facebook that Henry was having a hard time taking this medicine, a friend of mine told me that it isn't flavored and that the pharmacy can flavor it for you (I can't taste it because I'm allergic to it). So I paid $3 and had Walgreen's add some bubble gum flavor. Ever since, he has taken it like a champ. Totally worth the $3. Also, we have noticed that giving Henry yogurt twice a day and putting diaper rash cream on constantly helped keep those side effects from getting horrible.
Henry comes by his bad eustachian tubes naturally. I had chronic ear infections, with tubes at 8 months and then again when I was about 8. My dad had horrible ear infections as a kid and subsequently has horrible hearing. I think he got his first set of hearing aids at 40. I KNOW my hearing has suffered because of all the ear infections I had, and that is definitely not something I want for Henry. Not to mention, I have vivid memories of them being super painful.
Since we have DEFINITELY passed the pediatric's benchmark of "4 ear infections in 6 months", we were headed to the ENT for a consultation regarding ear tubes. Well, us and 2 convicts. There's something really strange about sitting in a waiting room with your toddler and then having 2 guys in full on shackles shuffling into the waiting room. They were accompanied by officers from the penitentiary, so I am sure their crimes were non-violent (yeah right).
Anyway... Henry is getting some ear tubes. This is how he felt about it:
Phil and I feel the complete opposite. For so many reasons, I am excited for Henry's ears to get some relief. For one, the audiologist said he is showing signs of hearing loss (which will go away after the tubes are in and the fluid around his ear drums drains).
For the time being, we are currently waiting to get his surgery scheduled. It is kind of funny because the clinic has online patient charts and portals, I filled out all the paperwork online, Henry's pediatrician and the ENT office sent his chart back and forth electronically. But to get his surgery scheduled, we have to wait for a letter in the mail. Once we get the letter, then I can call and schedule his surgery. A letter in the mail? Might as well be waiting for the pony express. I have been wondering how many ear infections he will have while we wait for his surgery date. So far, the tally is up to 1.
Also, Henry weighs 30 lbs 2.5 oz as of yesterday. If you were to assume he was a 2 year old (which he is getting close to being), with his height and his weight, the CDC would label him as obese.
Which just seems funny to me. He's not obese. There's a slight chance I got his height wrong for this. I certainly wouldn't call him obese.
Because Henry is a bigger guy (I won't call him obese because he is not), the pharmacist usually won't fill his prescription right away. They always want to confirm his weight because they think the dose will be too high for a child of his age. I guess they trust my memory more than the doctor's prescription.
Ears, ears, EARS. We like our ears. It's good, it's good to hear with ears.
Well, Henry's ears have not been super cooperative lately.
{"Let's get out of here, Mom"}
We are on I think our 4th, 5th, or 6th ear infection of 2015. I honestly can't remember. It's at least his 4th. (Another reason blogging has been scarce) What's super frustrating is that the ear infections ARE clearing up in between, but the fluid isn't going away. Which means we end up with another ear infection like 2 weeks after we finish antibiotics.
A quick tip about antibiotics: Augmentin (which they have prescribed for Henry on multiple occasions) is the chalky looking white liquid with a super sweet smell. I mentioned on facebook that Henry was having a hard time taking this medicine, a friend of mine told me that it isn't flavored and that the pharmacy can flavor it for you (I can't taste it because I'm allergic to it). So I paid $3 and had Walgreen's add some bubble gum flavor. Ever since, he has taken it like a champ. Totally worth the $3. Also, we have noticed that giving Henry yogurt twice a day and putting diaper rash cream on constantly helped keep those side effects from getting horrible.
Henry comes by his bad eustachian tubes naturally. I had chronic ear infections, with tubes at 8 months and then again when I was about 8. My dad had horrible ear infections as a kid and subsequently has horrible hearing. I think he got his first set of hearing aids at 40. I KNOW my hearing has suffered because of all the ear infections I had, and that is definitely not something I want for Henry. Not to mention, I have vivid memories of them being super painful.
Since we have DEFINITELY passed the pediatric's benchmark of "4 ear infections in 6 months", we were headed to the ENT for a consultation regarding ear tubes. Well, us and 2 convicts. There's something really strange about sitting in a waiting room with your toddler and then having 2 guys in full on shackles shuffling into the waiting room. They were accompanied by officers from the penitentiary, so I am sure their crimes were non-violent (yeah right).
Anyway... Henry is getting some ear tubes. This is how he felt about it:
Phil and I feel the complete opposite. For so many reasons, I am excited for Henry's ears to get some relief. For one, the audiologist said he is showing signs of hearing loss (which will go away after the tubes are in and the fluid around his ear drums drains).
For the time being, we are currently waiting to get his surgery scheduled. It is kind of funny because the clinic has online patient charts and portals, I filled out all the paperwork online, Henry's pediatrician and the ENT office sent his chart back and forth electronically. But to get his surgery scheduled, we have to wait for a letter in the mail. Once we get the letter, then I can call and schedule his surgery. A letter in the mail? Might as well be waiting for the pony express. I have been wondering how many ear infections he will have while we wait for his surgery date. So far, the tally is up to 1.
Also, Henry weighs 30 lbs 2.5 oz as of yesterday. If you were to assume he was a 2 year old (which he is getting close to being), with his height and his weight, the CDC would label him as obese.
Which just seems funny to me. He's not obese. There's a slight chance I got his height wrong for this. I certainly wouldn't call him obese.
Because Henry is a bigger guy (I won't call him obese because he is not), the pharmacist usually won't fill his prescription right away. They always want to confirm his weight because they think the dose will be too high for a child of his age. I guess they trust my memory more than the doctor's prescription.
Tuesday, February 10, 2015
It was either don't blog, or blog about REALLY boring stuff. You're welcome.
Well, let's see. My last post was who knows how long ago.
Too long.
It's been a busy month around these parts and not with anything super exciting. I did throw a baby shower, which I want to blog about. But other than that, I've mainly been working.
I worked a couple of 50+ hour weeks a couple of weeks ago. And since that, it's been over 40 hours a week.
Honestly, I just haven't had much to blog about.
I mean, unless people want to read about last Monday when I read magazines and drank tea while watching The Bachelor and it pretty much was the best thing ever. Because it totally was. So I am trying to recreate it this week with some nail painting and maybe some knitting (if my nails dry). Definitely going to need some Trader Joe's Dark Chocolate Pretzel Thins.
I'm pretty sure they will because I used CND Vinylux. It's similar to shellac/gel manicures, but doesn't take the UV light. It dries hard in like 7 minutes. I've used it with other CND polish colors and regular nail polish and it definitely extends the length of the manicure. PLUS... it isn't that spendy.
Also, I decided I needed to kick it into gear when it comes to fitness. I've been going to the gym at lunch with my cube mate for the last year or so. We only end up getting between 20-30 minutes of weight lifting in a day, but it has really helped. Some days when the weather is nice, we go for walks. She walks super fast so that is a definite work out. But I need to add something else in to help firm up the cancer/pregnancy changes that took place.
I'm so excited that the #1800minutechallenge started. It was exactly what I needed to kick myself into gear. Basically you try to log 1800 minutes of exercise by the end of March (averaging 30 minutes a day).
I'm off to a pretty good start. I had to miss a couple of days last week, so I am a little behind, but I am hoping I can catch up quickly. My cube mate and I went to power yoga this last weekend and it was SO HARD. I mean, I have done yoga before, but at one point, I swear I could feel my quad ripping off of my bone. Somehow, I survived the hour and definitely want to go back.
Also, I started teaching myself how to knit.
See... super exciting.
Ok so this post really has no rhyme or reason. What can I say? I'm out of practice.
I'll work on it.
Henry has decided that clothes are optional at home. You know what isn't optional? A diaper. I'm standing firm on that one until he proves bladder control.
Too long.
It's been a busy month around these parts and not with anything super exciting. I did throw a baby shower, which I want to blog about. But other than that, I've mainly been working.
I worked a couple of 50+ hour weeks a couple of weeks ago. And since that, it's been over 40 hours a week.
Honestly, I just haven't had much to blog about.
I mean, unless people want to read about last Monday when I read magazines and drank tea while watching The Bachelor and it pretty much was the best thing ever. Because it totally was. So I am trying to recreate it this week with some nail painting and maybe some knitting (if my nails dry). Definitely going to need some Trader Joe's Dark Chocolate Pretzel Thins.
I'm pretty sure they will because I used CND Vinylux. It's similar to shellac/gel manicures, but doesn't take the UV light. It dries hard in like 7 minutes. I've used it with other CND polish colors and regular nail polish and it definitely extends the length of the manicure. PLUS... it isn't that spendy.
Also, I decided I needed to kick it into gear when it comes to fitness. I've been going to the gym at lunch with my cube mate for the last year or so. We only end up getting between 20-30 minutes of weight lifting in a day, but it has really helped. Some days when the weather is nice, we go for walks. She walks super fast so that is a definite work out. But I need to add something else in to help firm up the cancer/pregnancy changes that took place.
I'm so excited that the #1800minutechallenge started. It was exactly what I needed to kick myself into gear. Basically you try to log 1800 minutes of exercise by the end of March (averaging 30 minutes a day).
I'm off to a pretty good start. I had to miss a couple of days last week, so I am a little behind, but I am hoping I can catch up quickly. My cube mate and I went to power yoga this last weekend and it was SO HARD. I mean, I have done yoga before, but at one point, I swear I could feel my quad ripping off of my bone. Somehow, I survived the hour and definitely want to go back.
Also, I started teaching myself how to knit.
See... super exciting.
Ok so this post really has no rhyme or reason. What can I say? I'm out of practice.
I'll work on it.
Henry has decided that clothes are optional at home. You know what isn't optional? A diaper. I'm standing firm on that one until he proves bladder control.
Friday, January 16, 2015
Baby's 1st Guitar Lesson
Have you ever noticed that bloggers seem to go MIA for a while and then suddenly they return with an announcement that they are pregnant?
Yeah, that's not why I haven't been blogging. :)
Between the holidays, my mother-in-law visiting, throwing a baby shower, and work (I worked over 50 hours this last week), I really don't have a ton to blog about.
BUT...
Last night, I was at a meeting and Phil decided Henry needed his first guitar lesson.
And because he is the best husband in THE WORLD, he filmed it. And then he made a little movie.
It might be the cutest thing I have ever seen.
Here you go.
Baby's 1st Guitar Lesson from Natalie Janney on Vimeo.
I'm really hoping to get a life here soon, so I have something to blog about. :)
Yeah, that's not why I haven't been blogging. :)
Between the holidays, my mother-in-law visiting, throwing a baby shower, and work (I worked over 50 hours this last week), I really don't have a ton to blog about.
BUT...
Last night, I was at a meeting and Phil decided Henry needed his first guitar lesson.
And because he is the best husband in THE WORLD, he filmed it. And then he made a little movie.
It might be the cutest thing I have ever seen.
Here you go.
Baby's 1st Guitar Lesson from Natalie Janney on Vimeo.
I'm really hoping to get a life here soon, so I have something to blog about. :)
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